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3 min read FOCUSED AND FEARLESS  Photographs are clearer when they are in focus. When they are out of focus, they are blurry, indistinct. How many times have you been disappointed by the result when your focus was off? Faces or objects are blurred, maybe even unrecognizable. Toss that one away a poor quality picture that does not meet the ideal you had in mind when you took it. Scratch it up to experience. Maybe blame it on the camera. The quality of the pictures that show up in your life are also largely due to proper focus. In the first place, the idea must be clearly held in mind. The result you desire to manifest in your life must first be clearly and distinctly created in your imagination. It must be ‘in focus’; that is, the components must be defined, clearly seen, envisioned. In the second place, as you go about the ‘doing’ necessary to effectuate the picture, you must remain focused on your goal and not allow yourself to get distracted by what is going on around you.  Simple really, but it always amazes me how unfocused people are. Ask someone to describe their heart’s desire and 90% of the time, you cannot get a clear description from them.
It is blurry and indistinct. Generalities but no specifics. Or a description of the picture by what’s not in it. "I want health, wealth and happiness" "So what does health mean to you?" "Well, you know, to not be sick." "So what does wealth mean to you?" "Well, you know, to not be lacking." "So what does happiness mean to you?" "To not be sad, dissatisfied." "I want peace." "What’s that?" "Well, you know no more war." Not this, not that; defining the picture, the ideal by what is not in it, instead of what is in it. The trouble with focusing on ‘no more war’ is that you are still focusing on war. The trouble with focusing on not being unwell is that you are still focusing on un-wellness, not wellness. The focus is on lack and limitation and not on abundance and potentiality. Most people seem to know what they do NOT want. Focus your attention and intentions on those ideals that you want, desire, long for, lust after. Make that focus clear and distinct. You get the picture you have focused on. "Prosperity is the abundance of all things held ideal in mind and dear in heart." How clear and exact are your ideals? How much desire, longing, passion is attached to them? How focused is the image in your mind? How focused is your desire to have that ideal scenario in your life? The complex thing about life is that it is wonderfully full of distractions. Here you are, focused on some purpose or goal and then this incredibly intrusive thing occurs. Perhaps, you are in medical school, totally focused on becoming a doctor. Then this great guy shows up and before you know it, you are at home practicing motherhood instead of medicine and taking your child to the pediatrician you could have been had you not allowed yourself to be distracted, to lose focus. Or perhaps, you are busy going about the business of creating a business and some seemingly major obstacle presents itself, so you change your mind, change your plan, change your focus to the next great business idea and the next one after that. Life is full of distractions making it easy to lose focus. Winners stay focused. Sometimes they are so focused that you cannot even get their attention. If you are still struggling to create focus and clarity in your life, schedule your Sunny Life "Experience Coaching" Session. We will explore your possibilities! Together, we will make it happen!
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 Charisma also known as the "IT" factor is a fascinating and multifaceted trait that can greatly enhance your personal and professional life. Charisma has an enchanting power almost like "pixie dust" to captivate hearts and open doors to new opportunities. The good news is that increasing your charisma doesn't require a magic wand or any elaborate techniques. In fact, it is the simple everyday actions that can unlock your charismatic potential. Here are five simple, straightforward ways to elevate your charm and radiate irresistible charisma.  1)SMILE, RADIATE AND REPEAT
One of the simplest yet most powerful ways to boost your charisma is through the transformative power of a genuine smile. A warm and authentic smile instantly draws people towards you and creates an inviting atmosphere. Remember a smile is contagious and spreads joy wherever you go. 2)BE FULLY PRESENT Charismatic individuals have the remarkable ability to make you feel like you are the center of attention. How, you ask? By being fully present in the moment. When engaging with others, put away distractions, make eye contact and actively listen. Show genuine interest in what the other person is saying and, ask thoughtful questions and respond with empathy. By giving your undivided attention, you create a deep connection that enhances your charisma. 3)EMBRACE YOUR AUTHENTICITY Authenticity is the secret ingredient that amplifies your charisma. Embrace your unique qualities, quirks and passions. Celebrate what makes you stand out from the crowd. By being true to yourself, you radiate a genuine charm that is irresistible. Remember there is no one else quite like you, and that is your SUPERPOWER. 4)CULTIVATE POSITIVE ENERGY Positive energy is like a magnet, drawing people towards you and brightening their day. Cultivate a positive mindset by focusing on the good in every situation. Practice gratitude, count your blessings, and surround yourself with positivity. Infuse your interactions with enthusiasm, optimism and encouragement. Your vibrant energy will leave a lasting impression and elevate your charismatic appeal. 5)EMBODY CONFIDENCE Confidence is the key that unlocks your charisma. Stand tall, speak with conviction and embrace your unique voice. Believe in yourself and your capabilities. Celebrate your accomplishments and learn from your failures. Confidence is contagious, and when you exude it, others naturally gravitate toward you. Embrace your strength and let your self-assured presence light up any room that you enter. Increasing your charisma doesn't require a grand transformation. It begins with simple yet powerful actions that enhance your innate charm. Embrace the power of a genuine smile, be fully present in your interactions and celebrate your authentic self. Cultivate positive energy and let your confidence shine bright. As you incorporate these simple practices into your daily life, you will witness the incredible transformation of your charisma. Embrace the journey and let your radiant charm illuminate the world around you. If you are still struggling and need support in building your self confidence and developing your charisma, schedule your Sunny Life "Experience Coaching" Session. We will explore your possibilities! Together, we will make it happen! |
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